Leadership Tip

How to keep relationships from quietly failing.

In leadership, and in love, breakdowns rarely happen suddenly. They creep in when we stop asking honest questions. These ten questions are now part of my own “relationship MOT.” Healthy relationships - at home and at work - are built on curiosity, not assumption. Ask more. Assume less.

  1. What’s going well, and what isn’t?
  2. If you could change something, what would it be?
  3. How do you feel about “us” right now?
  4. What are our strengths?
  5. How could we strengthen our bond?
  6. If this were ideal, what would it look like?
  7. What brings you joy here?
  8. How do you prefer to receive appreciation?
  9. What could we work on together?
  10. What makes you feel truly valued?

The above leadership tip...
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