Leadership Tip

How to find your joy

With another year turning on the 17th, this week feels slightly more reflective than usual. We spend much of life chasing outcomes - promotions, medals, milestones, approval. Yet joy rarely arrives at the finish line. It lives in the process: the early morning practice, the difficult conversation handled well, the small improvement repeated daily. Purpose is not discovered in a single moment; it is uncovered through consistent engagement with what energises you. Leaders who know their joy lead with steadiness, not strain.

  1. Notice what energises you. Pay attention to the moments that give energy rather than drain it. Joy often hides in plain sight, in conversations, contribution or craft.
     
  2. Separate achievement from fulfilment. Success feels good. Meaning feels steady. Identify the difference. Build a life around what sustains you, not just what impresses others.
     
  3. Return to what you loved early. Before titles and targets, what absorbed you? Revisiting early interests often reconnects you with authentic motivation and curiosity.
     
  4. Contribute beyond yourself. Joy deepens when it serves others. Teaching, mentoring or organising something meaningful transforms personal enjoyment into shared purpose.
     
  5. Make it a habit, not a hope. Don’t wait for joy to appear. Schedule it. Protect it. Repetition turns passion into identity.

The above leadership tip...
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