Leadership Tip

How to know if you are acting like a pushover

You have to get along with others to get things done, right? Yes, to a degree. You want to be cooperative, but you don’t want to be seen as a pushover. Watch out for these signs that you’ve taken being the good person too far – chances are that if you’re feeling these things, other people are noticing them as well.

  • You kick yourself for not speaking up in meetings.
  • You only realise your point of view on something after the discussion ends.
  • You blame your colleagues for not giving you a chance to speak.
  • You feel overwhelmed and pulled in multiple directions.
  • Your calendar is all back-to-back meetings, with no time to focus on yourself or your critical priorities.
  • Your peers get promoted before you.

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