Leadership Tip

How to make ghosting extinct

Ghosting is a phenomenon we wish would go the way of the dinosaurs. But it seems like it's here to stay as many would rather say nothing at all than say something that makes them, or the recipient, feel uncomfortable. Here are some workable suggestions on how to be more forthright in situations where the temptation might be to ghost someone. For starters, don't be afraid to deliver bad news. It gives you a chance to exercise your empathy muscles.

  1. Being prompt and compassionate with a response often eases the sting.
  2. Draft a response ahead of time. One psychologist suggests this template: empathetic acknowledgment, a direct update and a warm parting.
  3. Don't worry about being perfect, be present.

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